Two, Count 'Em Two, Splendid Nieces
Oct. 17th, 2006 01:52 amDan and I are back from meeting his new niece Eleanor. She is all of three weeks old. At the moment, Eleanor's main accomplishments are lifting her head a bit if she's lying on her stomach, grunting, and, possibly, preferring being held by her father over being held by other men. Or maybe she just found her Uncle Dan's sweater to be itchy. It's kind of hard to tell. From the nose up, Eleanor is the spitting image of Dan's sister--so much so that, every time she furrowed her brow in puzzlement, we all cracked up, because we'd seen exactly that same brow-furrowing before. Visiting the Davises meant keeping quiet a lot, so as to avoid waking the baby.
Visiting my folks was livelier. Lively, perhaps verging on manic. My sister's little nuclear family is still living with my parents, while everyone waits for the contractors to rebuild her tornado-flattened house. So there they still are--four strong-willed adults, four dogs, and a toddler, all under one roof. Perhaps because my niece has so many adults to dote on her, little Kate is about four or five months' worth of verbally precocious. A typical fourteen-month-old's vocabulary consists of: Mommy, Daddy, bottle. After Kate's vocabulary hit 35 words, Pru and Zach stopped counting. Now, she can repeat almost any word after hearing it once, and she often guesses the meaning right and remembers after the first try. She has verbs--eat, feed, touch, stop, walk, dance, drum. It's not that surprising that she can say, "Don't touch," or even that she can say it in both English and Portuguese (her occasional day care provider is from Brazil). What's surprising is that, if you say in a cheery voice, "Katherine, don't touch," she will stand still and point, from a respectful distance, at all the things in the room that she already knows she's not allowed to touch, starting with her former favorite, the television screen. At restaurants, if the waitress asks if she can bring anything more, Kate will fix the waitress with her gaze and say, "More rice!"
Best, absolutely best of all, is that she has the word raining. It's not something to eat. It's not something to grasp in her hand. It's not a verb that she can do herself, or that anyone in particular can do to or for her. It's not even something that happens all that often, where she lives. The noun, rain, is not what interests her. It's raining, the state of things, a condition the universe takes on.
Like most things in Kate's life, raining is an occasion for laughing with delight.
Visiting my folks was livelier. Lively, perhaps verging on manic. My sister's little nuclear family is still living with my parents, while everyone waits for the contractors to rebuild her tornado-flattened house. So there they still are--four strong-willed adults, four dogs, and a toddler, all under one roof. Perhaps because my niece has so many adults to dote on her, little Kate is about four or five months' worth of verbally precocious. A typical fourteen-month-old's vocabulary consists of: Mommy, Daddy, bottle. After Kate's vocabulary hit 35 words, Pru and Zach stopped counting. Now, she can repeat almost any word after hearing it once, and she often guesses the meaning right and remembers after the first try. She has verbs--eat, feed, touch, stop, walk, dance, drum. It's not that surprising that she can say, "Don't touch," or even that she can say it in both English and Portuguese (her occasional day care provider is from Brazil). What's surprising is that, if you say in a cheery voice, "Katherine, don't touch," she will stand still and point, from a respectful distance, at all the things in the room that she already knows she's not allowed to touch, starting with her former favorite, the television screen. At restaurants, if the waitress asks if she can bring anything more, Kate will fix the waitress with her gaze and say, "More rice!"
Best, absolutely best of all, is that she has the word raining. It's not something to eat. It's not something to grasp in her hand. It's not a verb that she can do herself, or that anyone in particular can do to or for her. It's not even something that happens all that often, where she lives. The noun, rain, is not what interests her. It's raining, the state of things, a condition the universe takes on.
Like most things in Kate's life, raining is an occasion for laughing with delight.