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Meet my brother-in-law Zach: when he's not saving the world through acoustical engineering (please note, actually saving the actual world), or playing with his band and doing his Latin-jazz-style percussion thing that makes all the women in the audience get up and shake their hips, he's home being one of the best dads in the world with my sister and their two very young daughters.

Or at least, that's his usual set of projects. Right now, he's waiting for biopsy results.

His doctors say, hope it's lymphoma, at least they know how to treat lymphoma. Man, you know the other possible diagnoses suck when lymphoma is your best option. My sister says, hope it's all just a big mistake, hope it's a gallstone like they thought before the MRI showed the mass on his liver, hope the whole problem just goes away. I'm hoping for a complete recovery. I'm not picky about what Zach's malady turns out to be, I'm not picky about how the universe orchestrates his complete recovery, I just want it to happen.

I hate cancer. I want to beat cancer up with a brickbat. I would like a year to go by without anybody giving me yet another occasion to write the Please Quit Smoking Because I Love You All blog post. (And, by the way, quit smoking, you. Zach thought just a couple of cigarettes on nights the band played couldn't be that big a deal, since they didn't have gigs all that often--he had mostly quit smoking. Take care of yourself. Live a long time.)

Zach could use some prayers. Has invited them, the more the merrier, in any form and to any being. Always does better in a tight spot when he knows he's being prayed for. He may be a nice Catholic boy from a Nebraska ranching family, but he asked his wacky tattooed Wiccan priestess of a sister-in-law to be godmother to both of his kids, so he means it when he says all prayers are welcome. He's probably never been in a tighter spot than this one, so I'm asking you, if you are the praying kind, and including a stranger in your devotions is a thing you're comfortable with, think of Zach.

May the best possible thing happen, whatever that is.

Date: 2009-07-03 08:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vgnwtch.livejournal.com
Zach has my prayers. Want to email me a picture and his last name?

Love to you all.

Date: 2009-07-05 03:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-pretentious.livejournal.com
On their way. Thank you!

Date: 2009-07-03 11:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] catpaw67.livejournal.com
Fuck cancer. Prayers on their way.

feel like stompin?

Date: 2009-07-03 12:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tracyandrook.livejournal.com
We need this guy. No amount of Latin jazz percussion can leave this world. Would you like to call a meeting and bring a recording of the band?

Re: feel like stompin?

Date: 2009-07-05 04:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-pretentious.livejournal.com
Absolutely! Are you free Monday night? The results come in on Tuesday. I have a student from 7:30 to 8:30, so scheduling's tricky. What do you think?

Re: feel like stompin?

Date: 2009-07-05 12:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tracyandrook.livejournal.com
I have a financial opportunity, unfortunately. It's HOC's full moon and I must care for Sam. It didn't register that we have so little time. Tonight is good (sunday) but I have to leave the house within 2 hours.

Re: feel like stompin?

Date: 2009-07-06 06:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-pretentious.livejournal.com
That's totally okay. We'll try another night for a big group thing. No matter what the answer is on Tuesday, there'll be more to do in the coming weeks. Give our regards to HOC.

Date: 2009-07-03 12:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sabrinamari.livejournal.com
I am *so* praying for Zach.

Date: 2009-07-03 02:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] queenoftheskies.livejournal.com
I'll be keeping Zach in my thoughts and prayers.

Date: 2009-07-03 03:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ingridsummers.livejournal.com
He's added to my list. Do you have a picture? It helps me remember.

Hugs to you and your family.

Date: 2009-07-05 03:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-pretentious.livejournal.com
I've got a picture. Can I email it to you? I'm at firstname dot lastname dot gmail dot com.

Date: 2009-07-03 04:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] karenjunker.livejournal.com
Prayers being sent. Hang in there...

in our prayers

Date: 2009-07-03 04:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jasminewind.livejournal.com
He's there, along with his family, including you.

Got an extra brickbat?

Date: 2009-07-03 05:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thecrimsony.livejournal.com
May the best possible thing happen, whatever that is.

Nuff said.

Date: 2009-07-03 07:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] purpledice.livejournal.com
Lots of prayers, thoughts, and love from Mom and me. I'd love to have a reason to say that 2009 has not completely sucked after all. Not to mention that he's awesome.

One large brickbat coming up...

Date: 2009-07-04 01:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] laradionne.livejournal.com
Oh! My best beloved friend! I will gladly offer up prayers of both the Catholic and Shamanic varieties for Zach's health and well-being. Having just been through the cancer death of my own beloved I cannot bear the thought of your sister having to face anything even remotely like that fate.

Re: One large brickbat coming up...

Date: 2009-07-05 03:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-pretentious.livejournal.com
Thank you. I've been thinking a lot about how this past year has been for you, and imagining more people having to go through a year like it has been hard.

One of the things that keeps me hopeful is that Zach knows how to work with the predominant medical paradigm. He and Pru have had to tough it out through unpleasant regimens before. All they need is some hope.

if it's lymphoma

Date: 2009-07-04 03:20 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Feel free to get him in touch with us. Tell him he's in my prayers.

-(other)zach

Re: if it's lymphoma

Date: 2009-07-05 03:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-pretentious.livejournal.com
I hadn't realized lymphoma was part of the mix for your dad. When I called my sister to try to be the Voice of Hope, I told her about your dad's victory, and Dan the Elder's victory over lymphoma. Odds are that I'll be calling you soon.

Date: 2009-07-05 10:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kistha.livejournal.com
My prayers are with you and your family.

May the best thing possible happen.

Date: 2009-07-14 04:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spindlewand.livejournal.com
You can tell him we just put the Infant of Prague on the job here,candle and all.

(BTW, I found you through the link to Drollerie press, in case you are wondering who on earth I am...although I know that when my family needs prayers I'm thrilled if total strangers throw one in, and I am sure from what I read that you are too.)

Date: 2009-07-15 02:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-pretentious.livejournal.com
Wonderful! Thank you, and please give my regards to the Infant of Prague. I have only the smallest acquaintance with the Infant, but Prague is one of my favorite cities.

So now that I know how you found me, how did you find Drollerie Press?

Date: 2009-07-15 03:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spindlewand.livejournal.com
I found Drollerie through a friend's rec - I was im'ing with her and a plot bunny attacked me. She suggested Drollerie as a market. I don't know where she got it from.
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